Nepal is largely a very traditional and conservative society with deep cultural roots in Buddhism and Hinduism, as well as a byzantine tribal and caste system. While respecting the multicultural customs and taboos prevalent in the country, foreign travelers are encouraged to observe these to gain personal respect. Here are some cultural tips for people traveling to Nepal:
- “Namaste” (pressing the palms together as if in prayer) is a formal greeting. Shaking hands is not common except for business purposes.
- Dress very modestly in Nepal. Women will be considered polite by covering their arms and shoulders, chest, stomach, and thighs.
- It is more respectful to address people as Didi (sister), Bahini (younger sister), Dai (brother), Bhai (younger brother), Bua (father), or Muwa (mother).
- If you are a guest in a Nepali family, always finish the food that is served on your plate. Leaving food on your plate unfinished indicates an unsatisfied meal to your host. If you feel that the portion of food is too large for you, ask your host to remove some from your plate before you start eating and they will happily do so. You are always welcome to add more food later if the initial serving does not fill you up.
- Some religious sites do not allow non-Hindus, which should be respected. In places where it is permitted or in Buddhist monasteries, you should wear respectful clothing that covers your shoulders and knees.
- Always walk clockwise around Buddhist holy stupas and monuments.
- It is a respectful gesture to bring a gift when inviting your guests into their home.
- Showing too much skin is not considered respectful, especially for women. Men generally wear shirts and long trousers, while women wear long-sleeved shirts, long skirts, saris, loose trousers and salwar kurtas.
- Leather items are generally not allowed in Hindu holy sites.
- It is considered very rude if you point at someone’s bottom.
- If you are eating with your hands, use only your right hand. The left hand, which is washed after using the bathroom, is kept away and is not considered offensive.
- Remember, once you have touched any food item to your lips, it is considered adulterated for everyone else. If you eat from someone else’s plate or share the same plate, it is not considered clean. The same rule applies to drinking water or other beverages.
- When entering a local’s home, you are expected to take off your shoes and leave them outside the door. Feet and shoes are often considered ceremonially unclean.
- If you are hiking in the mountains, do not leave your trash behind. Pack your trash or throw it in a designated bin.
- It is generally customary to tip in hotels, restaurants, and for drivers, guides, and porters. Some bills may not include a service charge, however, tips are always expected.
